Dive Deeper: Conflict

Experts

  • Dr. Jonathan Hoover

    Pastor, professor, organizational psychologist, author and marriage coach

  • Drs. Les & Leslie Parrott
    Les, clinical psychologist. Leslie, marriage and family therapist
  • Dr. Tim Kimmel

    Bestselling author and speaker who specializes in healthy family dynamics

  • Gary Thomas

    Christian thought leader on spiritual formation and family life

  • Dr. Meg Meeker

    Pediatrician, bestselling author, and speaker who specializes in healthy family dynamics

  • Shaunti Feldhahn

    Harvard analyst turned social researcher and bestselling author

  • Ron Deal

    Bestselling author, podcaster, speaker and marriage and family therapist

  • Corie Weathers

    Licensed counselor, author, speaker, and military clinical consultant

  • Dr. John Townsend

    Psychologist and co-author of NY Times bestselling Boundaries series

  • Constance Rhodes

    Founder, FINDINGbalance and True Voice Co

  • Dr. Michael Lyles
    Diplomate of the American Board of Psychiatry and Neurology
  • Ted Lowe

    Speaker, author, and director of MarriedPeople.org

  • Jefferson Bethke

    Bestselling author, podcaster, and sought-after speaker

Resources

book
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Fight Proof Your Marriage
podcast
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Grace Based Families Podcast: How to Fight Fair
book
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Handling Difficult People
book
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The Good Fight
book
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Trading Places
book
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Your Time Starved Marriage
book
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The Control Freak
book
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One More Try
book
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In Sickness and in Health
book
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Dealing with the CrazyMakers in Your Life
book
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When to Walk Away
book
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Moving Forward
book
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A Just Forgiveness
workbook
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Moving Forward
book
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Who's Pushing Your Buttons?
book
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How to Have That Difficult Conversation
book
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Everybody Always
book
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How We Love
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How We Love Workbook

Videos

How do I deal with criticism from my spouse?
4:39
How do I deal with criticism from my spouse?

Dr. Jonathan Hoover

Is our marriage in trouble?
3:05
Is our marriage in trouble?

Gary Thomas

How do I deal with an angry spouse?
4:22
How do I deal with an angry spouse?

Gary Thomas

My spouse is looking at porn, what should I do?
6:16
My spouse is looking at porn, what should I do?

Dr. John Townsend

What do I say when I hurt my spouse's feelings?
3:47
What do I say when I hurt my spouse's feelings?

Dr. Tim Kimmel

How do I get my partner off of their phone?
3:44
How do I get my partner off of their phone?

Dr. John Townsend

Is it bad to go to bed angry?
2:18
Is it bad to go to bed angry?

Gary Thomas

What if I'm married to a control freak?
2:34
What if I'm married to a control freak?

Drs. Les & Leslie Parrott

I need grace from my spouse, what can I do?
2:29
I need grace from my spouse, what can I do?

Dr. Tim Kimmel

How do I resolve conflict with my spouse?
2:41
How do I resolve conflict with my spouse?

Dr. Tim Kimmel

How do I fight well with my spouse?
2:06
How do I fight well with my spouse?

Dr. Tim Kimmel

Is there help for my bipolar spouse?
3:12
Is there help for my bipolar spouse?

Dr. Michael Lyles

How do I respond to my spouse's manic episode?
4:06
How do I respond to my spouse's manic episode?

Dr. Michael Lyles

How do I receive an apology if I'm still mad?
4:17
How do I receive an apology if I'm still mad?

Dr. Tim Kimmel

How do I handle my partner's mood swings?
2:17
How do I handle my partner's mood swings?

Constance Rhodes

How do I respond to my partner policing food?
3:00
How do I respond to my partner policing food?

Constance Rhodes

Should I bring up an old argument?
3:01
Should I bring up an old argument?

Constance Rhodes

What should I do if I think my spouse is lying to me?
3:23
What should I do if I think my spouse is lying to me?

Jefferson Bethke

How do I restore trust that’s been broken?
7:05
How do I restore trust that’s been broken?

Corie Weathers

My spouse keeps checking my phone, what should I do?
3:02
My spouse keeps checking my phone, what should I do?

Jefferson Bethke

What do we do if we can't agree on design in the home?
3:43
What do we do if we can't agree on design in the home?

Jefferson Bethke

What do I do when my spouse triggers me?
4:39
What do I do when my spouse triggers me?

Ted Lowe

I hate how many pillows my wife puts on our bed, what should I do?
2:28
I hate how many pillows my wife puts on our bed, what should I do?

Ted Lowe

What can I do if my spouse and I are stuck on a decision?
4:15
What can I do if my spouse and I are stuck on a decision?

Ted Lowe

How to communicate with a man who won't communicate?
6:28
How to communicate with a man who won't communicate?

Shaunti Feldhahn

What do I do if my ex-spouse uses our kids to send messages to me?
04:46
What do I do if my ex-spouse uses our kids to send messages to me?

Ron Deal

My husband thinks he's being honest, but it's hurtful. What do I do?
3:12
My husband thinks he's being honest, but it's hurtful. What do I do?

Dr. Henry Cloud

How do I get my partner to listen, not just hear?
2:45
How do I get my partner to listen, not just hear?

Dr. John Trent

How do I forgive in a healthy way?
4:37
How do I forgive in a healthy way?

Dr. Chris Thurman

How do I apologize well?
3:51
How do I apologize well?

Dr. Michael MacKenzie

What is the best way to confront my spouse?
4:00
What is the best way to confront my spouse?

Jeff and Terra Mattson

How do I fight well?
2:49
How do I fight well?

Drs. Les & Leslie Parrott

champions
How do I help couples fight well?
2:54
How do I help couples fight well?

Drs. Les & Leslie Parrott

champions
How do I help a couple that has hurt each others feelings?
2:16
How do I help a couple that has hurt each others feelings?

Drs. Les & Leslie Parrott

champions
How do I help a couple manage anger in marriage?
1:59
How do I help a couple manage anger in marriage?

Drs. Les & Leslie Parrott

champions
How do I counsel a couple when one of them is battling porn addiction?
2:17
How do I counsel a couple when one of them is battling porn addiction?

Drs. Les & Leslie Parrott

champions
How do I counsel a couple that feels like everything is wrong with their marriage?
3:18
How do I counsel a couple that feels like everything is wrong with their marriage?

Drs. Les & Leslie Parrott

How do you handle having a spouse that says things that hurt your self image?
3:09
How do you handle having a spouse that says things that hurt your self image?

Drs. Les & Leslie Parrott

My wife gets frustrated with how much I work, what should I do?
4:01
My wife gets frustrated with how much I work, what should I do?

Drs. Les & Leslie Parrott

How do I apologize so my spouse receives it?
2:35
How do I apologize so my spouse receives it?

Dr. John Delony

I want to forgive but I'm still upset, what do I do?
3:02
I want to forgive but I'm still upset, what do I do?

Dr. Everett Worthington

What are the steps to forgiveness?
4:07
What are the steps to forgiveness?

Dr. Everett Worthington

Can past trauma affect my marriage?
3:39
Can past trauma affect my marriage?

BJ Thompson

My spouse is never on time, what can I do?
2:22
My spouse is never on time, what can I do?

Dr. John Delony

My spouse is an introvert and I don't know what they're thinking or feeling, what can I do?
2:36
My spouse is an introvert and I don't know what they're thinking or feeling, what can I do?

Michael Jr. and Ebony Wright

How do we overcome anger?
3:56
How do we overcome anger?

Dr. Jennifer Ripley

champions
How do I teach forgiveness to my couples?
4:30
How do I teach forgiveness to my couples?

Dr. Everett Worthington

How do I make a good apology?
4:24
How do I make a good apology?

Dr. Everett Worthington

I'm married but a woman at work keeps flirting with me, what do I do?
2:43
I'm married but a woman at work keeps flirting with me, what do I do?

Jerry Jenkins

champions
I'm a pastor and a woman I'm counseling is developing feelings, what do I do?
2:17
I'm a pastor and a woman I'm counseling is developing feelings, what do I do?

Jerry Jenkins

champions
How do I counsel a couple with a neat freak?
2:51
How do I counsel a couple with a neat freak?

Dr. John Delony

My spouse is a neat freak but I don't get it, what can I do?
2:40
My spouse is a neat freak but I don't get it, what can I do?

Dr. John Delony

I have different political views than my family, what can I do?
2:29
I have different political views than my family, what can I do?

Dr. John Delony

champions
How do I counsel a couple where a partner is weaponizing guilt?
3:56
How do I counsel a couple where a partner is weaponizing guilt?

Dr. John Delony

We can't stop fighting about the same issues, what do we do?
3.26
We can't stop fighting about the same issues, what do we do?

Jeff Kemp

What’s really behind my spouse’s anger?
2:50
What’s really behind my spouse’s anger?

Dr. Brie Turns

What do I do when my spouse hurts my feelings?
3:11
What do I do when my spouse hurts my feelings?

Claude Alexander

How do we communicate better when we disagree?
3:15
How do we communicate better when we disagree?

Dr. Jennifer Ripley

Is venting healthy?
3:31
Is venting healthy?

Dr. Jonathan Hoover

How do we handle conflict with different response types?
3:12
How do we handle conflict with different response types?

Dr. Jonathan Hoover

champions
How do I help couples make good apologies?
4:52
How do I help couples make good apologies?

Dr. Everett Worthington

My parents never had conflict but my spouse and I do, why is that?
2:17
My parents never had conflict but my spouse and I do, why is that?

Jeff McLaughlin

champions
How do I help a couple who has never seen conflict growing up?
2:58
How do I help a couple who has never seen conflict growing up?

Jeff McLaughlin

Is it unhealthy for us to take a time out during a conflict?
2:50
Is it unhealthy for us to take a time out during a conflict?

Jeff McLaughlin

Why would my husband suggest we have sex in the middle of an argument?
3:30
Why would my husband suggest we have sex in the middle of an argument?

Jeff McLaughlin

How do we resolve conflict in the moment?
3:46
How do we resolve conflict in the moment?

George and Tondra Gregory

How do we resolve conflict about being on time?
2:41
How do we resolve conflict about being on time?

George and Tondra Gregory

How do you manage interruptions in life and marriage?
3:55
How do you manage interruptions in life and marriage?

Bob Goff

How do you go about resolving conflict in marriage?
3:33
How do you go about resolving conflict in marriage?

Dr. Gary Rosberg

How to rebuild trust in a relationship?
2:28
How to rebuild trust in a relationship?

Dr. Gary Rosberg

Why do we fight so much?
3:04
Why do we fight so much?

Peter and Heather Larson

When do we need a time out while resolving conflict and how do we use that time?
2:30
When do we need a time out while resolving conflict and how do we use that time?

Peter and Heather Larson

How do I go about resolving conflict when my spouse avoids it?
3:46
How do I go about resolving conflict when my spouse avoids it?

Peter and Heather Larson

How to confront a friend?
2:15
How to confront a friend?

Shasta Nelson

My husband prioritizes work over family, what can I do?
2:57
My husband prioritizes work over family, what can I do?

Dr. Deb Gorton

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